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How can we
improve the Chinese-American Image?
Vincent
Chiu
When
people ask me what my nationality is I tell them “I’m Chinese”
instead of Chinese-American.
It’s already understood that I am an American equal in every
right, but when it
comes to social issues,
favoritism, and living my best at pursuing the American dream,
my
identity as a Chinese here in America
renders an image for me sometimes contrary to the
one I want to
create.
By my very nature and heritage, I am already a
different kind of American. My Asian
facial features,
my elders’ methods of communication, and my diversity alone
make it all the
more difficult to even the odds
with the rest of popularized America. Socially, I am already
fixed into a set of Asian stereotypes and prejudices.
It is as if my ethnicity here in America
has already
predestined my future that somehow I’ll grow up to be a
dentist, marry a Chinese
woman of fair skin, and have sons
who will excel at the nation’s top universities so that one
day
they too can repeat exactly what their father did. And
though this is a sound path to success,
an expectation like
this does not reflect my ambitions in life because I am a
regular nineteen-year-old student who’s still using his
youth to discover himself.
And for those like me who are still defining what
it means to be a Chinese-American, we
struggle to
balance the cultural differences between the American way
and the ways of the East.
In a two-faced world where
our individualism sets somewhere in its cultural spectrum,
Chinese-Americans feel that they have to satisfy both worlds
by honoring the expectations of their family
versus honoring
their own self. Life is a compromise but the
Chinese-American image has no
one identity because not all
Chinese-American are the same. As a Chinese, I must honor
the
rooted values of the Chinese culture, yet as an
American, I’m expected to harness the energy
of
the American dream, but as an individual, I choose to fuse
the two together for what I take as
my own. Wherever you’re
rooted, whether in the East, the West, or its compromise,
there is no
right or wrong way for a Chinese-American to
live by, because in the end Chinese-Americans
are left to
not define what their nationality means
to them but who they are as a person in their
own category.
We should be a people of great confidence, vigor,
and enthusiasm. It is because of our
uniqueness and
self-assurance that people will see beyond the current
Chinese-American
image. So to improve the Chinese-American
image, we must be ourselves and do what we do
best.
Represent the individual that you are and
people will see beyond all of their prejudices
and
stereotypes for Chinese-Americans, to ultimately find a
person
of true character and
honesty. It is this kind of
self-respect that will not only honor the Chinese-American
image
but
also define what it means to be a great individual as a
Chinese-American.
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